I know this might not make any sense, but have you ever been attracted so someone who you didn't really find all that attractive?
A couple months ago I met this girl and from the moment I saw her I couldn't stop thinking about her but I don't know why. She's decently attractive, but not as attractive as other women I've dated. She has short hair, which in the past I would have said is an automatic dealbreaker for me, and she's a little heavier than women I typically date though not by much. I don't really know much about her, but I can tell she is shy, and I don't date shy women.
Now I don't mean to say that she's ugly or anything like that, but if a friend described her to me and said they wanted to set me up with her, I probably would have laughed and said no way. I meet more attractive women than her almost every day, but yet for some reason she's the one I can't stop thinking about.
I have a date with her later this week, but my friends say she isn't attractive enough for me. On the one hand I don't really care what they say, I want go out with her and she said yes so I'm going on with her, but on the other I wonder if they might be right?
Have you ever dated someone your friends said isn't attractive?
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To answer your first question... yes I have. But then again I'm not really dating a person based on looks. There has to be some attraction but it's their personality which makes them cuter or more attractive to me.
You said this girl would not be someone you would normally date. It has been said that sometimes people date someone different or opposite from the previous person. Such as if you dated a blonde before.. the next person would typically be a brunette or vice versa (someone that looks different). Maybe not 100% true but I see a theory behind it.
Your last question: yes I have dated someone my friends don't find that attractive. But they aren't the ones that are dating her so why does it matter? If you're happy and she's happy then great. I'm pretty sure your friends will still be your friend if things get serious. And who knows. She may end up being one is the best things that has happened to you. Surely you're not going to let your buddies steal your joy. Good luck!1