I just went on a second date with a guy I had been chatting to online. He seems okay, but I'm not really sure how I feel about him.
I've learned that he doesn't really cook for himself. Most of the time he just eats microwave meals. I find that to be a huge turn off. I can cook, but I don't want to be expected to be the only one cooking ever. I've already been in a relationship like that and it was terrible. I was expected to do all of the cooking and cleaning and I got no thanks for it. I also worked full-time and was going to school,
I just don't want to get into one of those situations again. I don't think it's solely the woman's job to do the cooking and cleaning. I think chores should be divided up.
Anyway during the date he wanted to hold my hand. I've had some bad experiences and I just am not ready to jump into another relationship right away. I want to get to know him before we do anything.
I went to a Halloween party this weekend and he was checking in on me to see if I was going with anyone. That kind of ticked me off. Like we are not exclusive and have only gone on 2 dates. I'm not even sure how I feel about him.
I literally just met this guy for the first time on our first date. We have only gone on 2 dates. I am not in a rush to get into a relationship.
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe make a "pros and cons" chart for him lol. :p0
Most Helpful Girl
Find a way of making him cool down. Or just ask him to take things slower. He may. Have already assumed he has you when he does not. Getting to know Somone first is fine. - he is moving to quickly and I would say you're right to be wary. It may be innocent. But still he should make an effort to date you first over a period of time until you both transition into a relationship naturally. It might be he's a little arrogant. And the cooking can be changed if he develops strong feelings for you I'm sure he will change his eating habits for a healthier life. Don't worry about the future yet. He needs to date you first and he needs to slow down. You're right to feel uncomfortable1