I'm a 23 years old girl. Good student, ambitious, friendly, popular but I've never been inclined towards dating. I love my life. It's fun and awesome. I have awesome girl friends. I get along with guys equally well. But any guy who has ever asked me out has, never seemed good enough. So I always passed. Is it okay to chose to be single and happy? And not try to get into a relationship or look for guys to get serious with? I am contended with my life right now. And I want to do so much. As long as settling with a man is concerned, I hope to get married (be it arranged I dont mind) to a nice guy maybe in the next 5 6 years or so without getting into the complications of young trying out stuff relationships. It's too much waste of my energy and I feel I'm not up for it.
Can anyone tell me if this is a normal way of thinking or am I mad for not wanting to be with a guy or testing things out?
Most Helpful Guy
it's a good thinking by the way and it's kinda normal too. There is nothing to worry about. You are enjoying your life the way you like and that is great. It is not necessary for you to have a guy in life compulsory to have fun. You may take your time as you are ambitious and have reasons. Guys will respect that... I do.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes it is okay to chose to be single and happy. And its very normal. And if your not ready for marriage now, then don't bother. Its better than having over 10 different guys and your so messed up to the point you can't get married, or even stay married. I'm the same way. And I'm somebody who is celibate. I have my reasons, and you have your reasons. It doesn't matter what other people think at this point. Its important that you remain a whole person before your able to share that with another. Never test the waters. Before the water test you.1