If yes, why?
If no, why?
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Yes. You see women have dual mating strategy called lover/provider or alpha fux/beta bux.
When a woman is young she is actively looking to secure commitment of the alpha male and perceive him having good genes.
Woman believe assholes are alpha males because they aren't nice to them which makes them stand out from the sea of men who are nice to them.
Women often confuse a man being nice to her as sucking up to her, and because of her hypergamous nature does not see him as a lover. Women see a man who treats her as lower than him as a lover because hypergamous nature of a woman wants someone better than him. So she chases the asshole.
When a woman gets older she gets tired of the asshole and has had enough experience to know that it does not end well after trying it over and over.
She now switches her mating strategy in looking for a provider male who can provide a stable lifestyle and who she believes she can control. In comes the nice guy who often ends up with a nice stable job that can provide for her. This is of well after she's had her sexual fill and fun with assholes and usually occur with many women in their late 20's,
Another reason good guys start getting play is because as a woman gets older kindness becomes the exception and not the norm. The special treatment men use to give her and kind gestures begins to dry up resulting in many older woman calling men assholes to her now when really they are just dropping the preferential treatment they use to give her.
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