So a woman I was seeing told me that she has feelings for me, but certain traumatic experiences in her life make her believe she shouldn't be dating anyone. Whenever we hang out, I can tell that she still has feelings for me. She told me today that she is feeling a lot better about her trauma lately, but also lambasted a mutual friend with which she has had no feelings for for hitting on her because she was under the impression that they were just friends. Should I respect the boundaries she has set and let her make the first move beyond mild flirting, or should I take initiative and make a move myself?
- I should respect her decisionVote A
- I should make a moveVote B