So me and this girl in my college class have been on two "dates" if you consider an hour long coffee and going to an hour and a half school event together alone as a date. I normally walk her to her next class so while we were walking yesterday I asked her out to the zoo on Friday and she said she has plans. I said "oh ok," then she was like "The zoo?" in a surprising way. We then moved on to another subject and was still talking to me like usual. She then said "bye" to me at the end as usual. I'm going to ask her again tomorrow but I guess the zoo isn't a good idea judging by her reaction? Where should I ask her to then? I prefer if it wasn't dinner because I'm not much of a conversationalist. Should I ask if she has any plans this weekend first or just straight up ask if she wants to go on Saturday night?
Third date: Is she no longer interested if she says she has plans and does not attempt to reschedule?
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Honestly man I think she see's you as a friend. If she was into you she would have offered another time and went to the zoo if she wasn't super excited about it. I mean its essentially just walking around a park with animals in it, she can muscle through the zoo if you are hanging out with someone you like.
If you want something to happen you have to direct or just stay friends. By direct I mean say I'm taking you on a date next weekend when are you free?
sitting around having coffee at school and going to a school event is not a date, its something to pass the time with someone else she at the very least enjoys your company.0
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