Uploaded is our text conversation.. he is G and I am M. So basically he came home this weekend without telling me and I saw on Facebook and was pissed off. This was our text conversation on Monday and I've been waiting for him to contact me.. it's now Thursday and still no contact.. should I just rep waiting or swallow MY pride and text him.. any input would be appreciated.
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You've been together for half a year and you still feel like you can't talk to him like a normal person, without playing these "he should text me first" games? Honestly that's almost the most worrisome thing in this whole ordeal.
I've been together with my boyfriend for almost half a year too, and I text/call him whenever I want. Obviously I don't spam him or anything but if something is on my mind, I definitely reach out and I don't wait around for him to read my thoughts.
It's not a good sign when a long distance relationship lacks communication, because that's literally all you have. You've failed to speak up about your thoughts and he has failed to let you know he's in town. Even if he's busy it would still be the polite thing to do, because in a relationship you don't keep details like that from each other. You let the other person know about your whereabouts when it's relevant, and this time it was hella relevant.
A) It's not a good sign that you feel like you have to wait around for his text. At this point even calling him to sort it out would have been better than waiting for a text. You need to feel like you can be yourself, and that you can be open and honest with him about how you feel, when you think something is wrong.
B) It's also not a good sign that he wasn't able to communicate such a simple thing as being in town, especially considering this is a long distance relationship. And even if he thinks he/you didn't have enough time to meet, it's still the polite thing to do given the circumstances. Not to mention that you've both now gone days without texting or talking, and that's obviously not a good idea since communicating is all you have.
Call him and sort things out as soon as possible. It sounds like he has lost interest and it also sounds like you were never truly comfortable in this relationship.0