Long story short:
- Met a girl at church.
- We seemed to get along well.
- I was very direct and asked her out on a date.
- She very enthusiastically said yes.
- I suggested a day and she said that she would get back to me.
- She never did.
- I will keep seeing her every week.
In this situation, wouldn't it be better overall if she just said that she's not interested? It's not like we met online and will never see each other again...
Why Would A Girl that I See Often Enthusiastically Agree to a Date and Then Never Get Back to Me?
Long story short:
What Girls Said 1
I think she was happy to have the offer to go on the date with you, but maybe you didn't come off as the person she thought you were, or she didn't feel things would work with you, which is why she never got back.
Maybe she isn't seeking something serious now, maybe her family stated their opinion on dating, or perhaps she felt differently about things after the date was over. I'm not sure what church you both attend, but I have a friend who even through high school was never allowed to date. Not until she was at least 18/19, and only people approved by the family. She was asked out a couple times over the years, but always had to say no because she had morals and her families opinions really mattered to her. It could be this situation with that girl too, depending on what she believes of course.
You could always pull her aside and ask if she has time to talk.
It's difficult not having answers, but this would be your best bet to find out the real reason. I hope you do get answers.
But in the mean time don't dwell on it, or let things get you down. Since she sees you at church, and doesn't come over to say anything more about the date, I would just let things go.0
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What Guys Said 1
Think about that last statement. You will see each other on a weekly basis. This was probably running through her mind as she was confronted with the choice of rejecting someone she has to see again, or taking the easy way out and offering a buffer to give her time to think. So give her time and if she doesn't get back to you, then you have her answer. She didn't do anything inherently bad since she never agreed to a day. She doesn't really owe that to you. If she doesn't get back to you, pretend like nothing happened and move on.0
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