Hi all, I met this guy online and he came to my city and invited me for dinner.. he said he had great time and invited me for lunch the next day before he went back home... the thing with this guy is that he said he doesn't pay much attention to his phone.. so whenever i text him or reply to his text.. i have to wait for at least 2 hours before he texts me back or call me.. I don't know if a this stage of our relationship, i should get mad at him.. and if it is normal in a relationship... It really gets on my nerve I dont know how to deal with him.. I m not even sure if he is serious and wants to be in a relationship with me or that was just casual dating.. help me!!
Most Helpful Guy
He should be proactive and he should be responding. However, some people are not good at that. The question is not how quickly he responds to the first text in your chain, but how quickly responds to the rest. For instance, you send a text, he does reply for a few hours, you text back to his reply... How quickly is he responding now? If its quick I don't think you have a lot to worry about, but if he responds slowly even it a conversation, that is not good.
That all being said, you have the right to the response that makes you happy. If this guy is non responsive and that is important to you, find someone who thinks that important too. Talk to him. Give him a chance. But, if he will not give you what you need to be happy, walk away.0
Most Helpful Girl
I find it annoying men who text bck so long. A man that really enjoys talking to and who want to be with you would not text bck so long. He probably has someone else and doesn't want to get to attached to you. I find it odd when he txts bck hours later. That means that he is controlling the relationship. I honestly would cut him off, he will not get better but worse. If a guy doesn't show me the attention I want. No worries... cut him off and won't contact him anymore. I dont waste anytime. Do it now before u won't get so attached.0