Like, kissing, making out, being touchy, holding hands, sex... How many dates or how much time is too slow in your opinion?
Got a fifth date coming up, seen each once a week, couple 2-3 hours each time. We've only kissed a bit, at longest about a chain of 5-6 kisses with no tongue. We're not really intimate otherwise either, like no hand holding, no snuggling... I've tried to initiate a few things but the response feels kinda lukewarm so I just back out and this is starting to feel very friend-zonely?
Most Helpful Girl
Look if you love a person, it doesn't really matter. Its all about respecting each others views about it and the decisions you both make together. If you don't want to invest anymore of your time, then you can leave. There is no rules that you two don't make together. So depending on your terms and her terms, you two need to go by that if you really like this person. Please respect whoever you date. Your not friend zoned and you need toe top with that mess. Being touchy is a no-no as well as making out and having sex. Never assume your dating partner is ready or is into any of that. For me as a person, if somebody tries to initiate anything very sexual or sex at all, I would be extremely upset when I said no till marriage. Again, never assume. If you really like this person, ask them instead of thinking so negative. You won't get anywhere when your lacking respect also. If your partner prefers slow, then go slow. That is her terms. If you don't like it, then move on so that she can find somebody who will give her she needs. I say your moving in way too fast because you want sex. Ever hear the term slow and steady wins the race?0
Most Helpful Guy
you're counting the dates on your fingers like a kid. If you're just taking her out to get some pussy then maybe tell her that you two aren't a good fit, otherwise just give her some time to get to know you.
How well can you really know someone after 4 dates0