For starters I have been friends with guys who i liked who only wanted sex, and I did not want that. I have standards so I turned them down or sometimes the guys i liked ended up getting into a relationship.
Also I am not going to engage in sex with someone who makes no effort to go on dates or make a commitment, yet apparently its so easy for women. Ok bullshit. And I do approach guys sometimes so do not say I am not making any effort.
I myself have been ghosted before and been turned down because of my skin color yet I still approach when I feel like it
Most Helpful Guy
It's easy for women to get sex or crappy relationships, serious relationships are something else. Then again, this depends a lot on your standards.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because they think since we get guys to ask us out or hit on us, that majority of those men must want something serious with us lol False. Most, probably at least half just want sex. It is hard to tell which is genuine and which only wants sex.
Also, they think that we can just ask any guy out and that they'll be so flattered theyd date us. WRONG again, I've asked out not a lot of guys, but more than a handful and they all rejected me. So yea. I fell into that myth, I will admit "Im a girl, I have advantage over other girls because Ill be the one asking him out". Nope. Learned the hard way that sometimes, if a guy hasn't asked you out, it wasn't because he was too shy, he just doesn't want you.1