I really think I'm gonna wind up alone. No dating, no kissing no nothing. Long distance is for desperate people
And I'm desperate because boys don't even look back at me. I exercise, I try to even though I hate it, I have big boobs
.. doesn't any guy like boobs? My friend doesn't have to exercise she can eat whatever she wants and still have a perfect body without doing anything and she has a boyfriend and guys who always like her. I have to skip meals, purge and exercise and my body still sucks. Do I have to flash my boobs to ya'll? I don't get it. I hate myself. Why can't I be enough?
Most Helpful Guy
Well confidence is one thing. Your attitude is completely self defeating. Two, you can force a good body, three, don't starve yourself. If you starve yourself you body goes into "save it" mode. In this mode it stores all calories so that you don't die. Also, breasts? That's a winning number for you? You obviously don't know how guys work... Guys don't look at breasts and go "Yes! Must fuck!" in fact large breasts turn me off entirely. I won't date a woman with large breasts. Instead of doing things like running or something just plug in some upbeat music and walk. That's all you need to do. Walk. And don't skip meals or starve yourself. If you do that it makes all you're doing pointless. Otherwise, don't get desperate. You're still a child. Your Mr. Perfect will come along. Just be patient.0
Most Helpful Girl
You don't need to try to flash your body for guys to look at you. That is disrespecting your sensuality and it will make guys to perceive you like a whore/slut desperate for male attention. They won't pay attention to someone like you. This is what I hear from you that is deterring guys away:
1. Your too desperate
3. Don't know what you want
4. Jealous and envious of your friend
5. Have self hatred
6. Having an eating disorder
Need I go on? Stop it. Do you really think what you doing is helping you right now? No, your making it worse. And I highly suggest that you go seek counseling for this. Because this is dangerous. Before we hear about another teenager who ends up dead or committed suicide over not getting a guy and is miserable. You shouldn't even be worried about a guy liking you because of you breast. Don't you realize that guys who want you for your breast just want your breast to play with and to make them have sex with you? Why do you think they make toys resembling them? And I'm sure you don't want some guy to just pump and dump you. You will never be happy living such a life. And who's to say your friend's relationship is just as grand and dandy? No one is perfect, and you have to realize that.
You have potential. But if you don't have much to offer other than your body, these guys will skip you for somebody who has character and personality. You need a better direction in your life. And this is not the first time you've posted up a question like this. You posted up about 3 similar questions or more over the past 2 months - 3 months. Sometime is not right here. And I want to know what the heck is going on over there in your life that you have to keep doing this? This is not a troll question. But sound like a girl who desperately needs help. Please say something. This is not some teenage phase either. Something is seriously wrong in your current life, and its more than just guy problems.4
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