I'm 30, but I just can't ask women out. I have tried to push myself, tried different ways, even sought therapy, but nothing works. I lack confidence and self esteem, and suffer from sever inferiority complex with women. These issues are too deep, they can never be fixed.
I just want to know, is it even possible for me to somehow get a woman interested in me without explicitly asking her out? Or should I just accept the fact that I should be content being single?
Mail order bride from a third world country is also an option, but I find it unethical so I won't consider it.
Most Helpful Girl
"I lack confidence and self esteem, and suffer from sever inferiority complex with women. These issues are too deep, they can never be fixed."
This will be the far bigger issue and will keep people away. Even if a woman asks you out, it is extremely difficult to be with somebody with inferiority complexes and such extreme low self esteem. I'm assuming that you, like most others in this situation, also have other "issues" that go hand in hand with this. That is also difficult.
The issues never run too deep to be fixed. Fair enough they might still niggle in the background, but you can learn to overcome and learn to deal with it all which will help majorly.2
Most Helpful Guy
If you manage to get a woman interested in you, how will it move up to the next level if you don't ask her out?0