A guy a recently started dating is very rich. He's a CEO of a very huge and successful company. He has a lux penthouse, finest cloths and accessories, 2 cars and a motorcycle. He probably has more then I am aware of.
Me, on the other hand, I am below average in finance. I do have a work which pays off okay but I have to financially provide my parents who are very poor, so I'm not left with much. I have a small, cheap flat which I rent (single bed and not very nicely furnished), I don't have a car and I don't have the greatest cloths (I buy cheap ones, sometimes second hand stuff).
But even though he's rich he's a really nice guy and I like him a lot. I liked him even before I knew he was rich. He treats me very good and he never rubs his fortune in my face. Someone who doesn't know him would never guess that his rich since he's so casual.
But I somehow feel that difference might get in a way of our relationship. Maybe it's just in my head, but I am kinda ashamed to invite him to my place because it's not fancy. I'm also not comfortable going to fancy restaurants with him because I don't have the appropriate outfits for that kinds of things. I don't like acting like a lady, I have a very young spirit and my lifestyle is kinda still like a student. I want to show him my true self, my world, but I am afraid that it would be too much for him (or rather not enough for him).
Most Helpful Guy
personally i HATE people even think of money when they date. its hey, CAN u meet up? CAN u afford the date? can u afford to hang out? if u can afford to do what u want why the fuck does it matter how much extra money they have? girls are petty as fuck. and this generation is horrible and it has gotten way worse lately. all they care about is how much money u have.
but for ur question i would say i wouldn't worry. the guy is probably only interested in u. i mean think about it. if u guys got involved what would happen? u would end up moving in with him right? how often does the guy move in with the girl? lol. not saying it does not happen its just rare.
also i dont know ur whole story or his, but i think u are assuming that because he has money that he is a rich fancy guy? maybe he is just another guy with money? maybe he likes u because u dont treat him like he is some fancy ass hat? some guys like to just throw on a shirt and jeans and go out. and on the flip side if he likes u and wants to do that, TELL him u dont have that kind of thing, he will pro get it for u. perk of going out with a rich guy. might be some awkward mments for a bit but just try to learn fast and focus on spending time on him and not on the weird ass places and things u guys are doing.0
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Most Helpful Girl
men like him usually date: a) women who knew them before they were rich; or b) women who are also rich; because they want someone who will like them for something other than money
you said: "I liked him even before I knew he was rich"
so you fall more into category "A"
you just started dating him. enjoy
don't let the difference get to your head0