Yes :D I dont know from experience, but my friend who was allways pervy like "Wow look at that girls ass, mmm so sexy" or so... is in a relationship with one girl for half a year now, and he changed... he told me he doesn't even wanna look at other girls, and "even when i look at them i just do it to see how much more beautiful is my girl" :D I see myself like that in a few years when i find the one, damn... :D
Not really. I mean, looks wise? No. There is so much beauty on this planet. I don't know if you have a boyfriend, but you can't tell me that he is the only attractive looking male out there xD
Now personality wise... You and only you. If you were like my girlfriend. You already look attractive, and the personality makes you tower above the rest, no matter how good they look
It is extremely rare for it to be anything but a passing phase of when the relationship starts and the guy is feeling crazy in love. After a few months, old habits of looking around and seeing beautiful women everywhere will reassert itself. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you though, it is the most natural thing in the world.
No, probably not. You can't just switch off your attraction to other people just because you're in a relationship, attraction isn't a choice. All that matters is that you stay faithful and don't go flirting with them or cheating.
I think it's possible for a guy to be monogamous to a point where temptation isn't an issue for him, but i doubt you'll ever see a day where a guy will look at an attractive girl and not find her attractive.
Yeah, it's possible. Months ago, for example, I really liked someone and nobody seemed to call my attention anymore, just her. So, it's completely possible.
No one is like that, not men, not women. Getting in a relationship doesn't suddenly stop making other women attractive. You my not want anything with them, but you still appreciate their beauty.
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I don't think this is a rational thing. When we're in love we're not blind all of the sudden. You still have your ability to see beauty in other people and that shouldn't define if he/she likes you more or less.
Yes... I believe it is real but also rare nowadays. I never met someone who genuinely had eyes for only one person. My husband is unlike any man I've ever known. His dad is the same way with his mom.
Yes, when he first falls in love with you and during the honeymoon stage. This won't last forever, but remember it's just looking: you can still be the only woman for him.
During the relatively brief crazy-in-love phase, maybe. Not in the long term. But it is possible to notice another attractive person without really feeling tempted or having any intention whatsoever of straying.
No because just like you he will probably look at other people and think they're attractive but if they don't do anything about it or think you're better then thats what matters
Hell no, my SO should not want me to always look at the ground just because there are people with vaginas walking around the place, that's ridiculously controlling and possessive
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Yes :D I dont know from experience, but my friend who was allways pervy like "Wow look at that girls ass, mmm so sexy" or so... is in a relationship with one girl for half a year now, and he changed... he told me he doesn't even wanna look at other girls, and "even when i look at them i just do it to see how much more beautiful is my girl" :D I see myself like that in a few years when i find the one, damn... :D
That's really nice to hear :)
Not really. I mean, looks wise? No. There is so much beauty on this planet. I don't know if you have a boyfriend, but you can't tell me that he is the only attractive looking male out there xD
Now personality wise... You and only you. If you were like my girlfriend. You already look attractive, and the personality makes you tower above the rest, no matter how good they look
It is extremely rare for it to be anything but a passing phase of when the relationship starts and the guy is feeling crazy in love. After a few months, old habits of looking around and seeing beautiful women everywhere will reassert itself. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you though, it is the most natural thing in the world.
No, probably not. You can't just switch off your attraction to other people just because you're in a relationship, attraction isn't a choice. All that matters is that you stay faithful and don't go flirting with them or cheating.
Is it possible for a woman to only have eyes for one person? I am married and my eyes wander all of the time. It's called being human.
Well mine don't lol
I'm quite certain I would not have a problem with that.
I'm single now but when I get attached to someone I'm there for her and for her only :D
I think it's possible for a guy to be monogamous to a point where temptation isn't an issue for him, but i doubt you'll ever see a day where a guy will look at an attractive girl and not find her attractive.
If I'm with any girl I never turn my head to another girl.
Yes it is real but it takes along time to develop it. Usually only married poeple or people who are engaged have that.
Yeah, it's possible. Months ago, for example, I really liked someone and nobody seemed to call my attention anymore, just her. So, it's completely possible.
No one is like that, not men, not women.
Getting in a relationship doesn't suddenly stop making other women attractive. You my not want anything with them, but you still appreciate their beauty.
I don't think this is a rational thing. When we're in love we're not blind all of the sudden. You still have your ability to see beauty in other people and that shouldn't define if he/she likes you more or less.
You obviously have a lot more confidence than most and for that I envy you
No, males are biologically inclined to spread their seed, therefore they will always be looking at other chicks.
Yes... I believe it is real but also rare nowadays. I never met someone who genuinely had eyes for only one person. My husband is unlike any man I've ever known. His dad is the same way with his mom.
See my boyfriend is just like that! And I'm so thankful for it. It's very very rare. Happy to hear your lucky enough to have that too ☺️
I'm happy to hear you have a great guy as well annalori!
Yes, when he first falls in love with you and during the honeymoon stage. This won't last forever, but remember it's just looking: you can still be the only woman for him.
During the relatively brief crazy-in-love phase, maybe. Not in the long term. But it is possible to notice another attractive person without really feeling tempted or having any intention whatsoever of straying.
No because just like you he will probably look at other people and think they're attractive but if they don't do anything about it or think you're better then thats what matters
Opinion owner. Maybe at your age group , not mature men
I agree^ and no I am not like that and I do not look at other people
annalori... especially because I only do relationships only anyhow. The grass is only green right under your feet...
Is it possible for women? Yes. Then it's possible for men.
Yes it real. A man can give his body to many women but his heart to only one at a time.
Hell no, my SO should not want me to always look at the ground just because there are people with vaginas walking around the place, that's ridiculously controlling and possessive