I'm 21 and this guy is 48. I have always had a thing for older guys but never been with someone more than 10 years older than me! We work in the same office, different departments. We haven't spoke much but we always have eye contact when we see each other. We spent the whole day together working on a project with some other people and i really took a liking to him. Just to be clear, a relationship is not what I want from him, just one thing
How do I know if an older guy likes me, if not, how can I attract his attention?
What Guys Said 3
Relationship or "one thing" you need to spend time alone with him. See if he wants to get coffee of make any excuse to get him alone and away from work. If he likes you he will agree, if he doesn't he will find an excuse.1
given the age gap you may have to make it pretty clear else he will think it is a definite no go1
What Girls Said 3
Go and ask him out. That'll give you a yes or no answer to your question of is he into you.0
I'm sort of in your same boat except I think I'd be in it for more of a relationship. Guys are so hard to read but just start by hangING out outside of work.0
Why do so many girls of my generation have such a soft spot for grandpa lovers? Anyway, I doubt he's interested. However, you can just easily seduce him or something -assuming that you're pretty.0
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