There's this guy in one of my classes who always sits behind me ( I sit in the front row). Every time, he sits behind me, I get very nervous and I always think that he doesn't want to sit next to me because I'm very ugly. I decided to move my desk a few inches away from his so he won't sit directly behind me. I like doing that because I think that he will be happy if I'm not around but I feel bad at the same time. I don't know if he was bothered by that action. I want to say "Hi" to him but I'm afraid that he will give me a disgusted look because I'm very unattractive and I've even been called the most uglest girl ever. I'm a sophomore in college who is extremely shy and I've never made a friend ever since I started college and I'm having a hard time. Im really scared and I want to know if I should say hi to him. - he's way out league and I would understand if he gave me a disgusted look.
- I am so tall and skinny. I have medium brown skin with acne on my face. I also have darksots and hyper-pigmentation. I have a big forehead and a round face. My facial features is kind of masculine which I hate and I don't wear makeup.
He is white with blond hair. He's a little tall, around my height but I think I'm a little taller. He's slim and slender. ( I really don't know if he's a nice or a mean person but I would like to get to know him)
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Hey hey hey, don't ever say that you're ugly! Never! It's fine to be realistic and understand that you're not a beauty, but calling yourself ugly is going to extremes. I believe any girl can be pretty. I mean it! You say that you don't wear make up, why not try it a little bit? Buy good make up and cover those nasty acne with it (if you can't do it medically). And put a bit of shadow and eyeliner on your eyes. I don't know what kind of hairstyle you have, but SHORT hair looks good on tall girls. ;)
But looks really don't matter THAT much. I know you don't believe me, but there are way more things that attract guys rather then face. One of the most popular is ass and boobs, duh. And body gestures. Get some nice cloths show 'em what you got! If you are tall I assume you are skinny too, so try showing your stomach, guys love that. If you have nice boobs that's a big plus as well. Just play with what you got and forget about what you don't. Also, personality plays a big role in seduction. You should WORK HARD to get rid of that shyness. Smile and laugh and talk to people, and walk like you're walking on a red carpet. Show dem guys you love yourself and that no one is out of your league. That way you will give a positive vibe. People see what you let them see, so show them your best. And if necessary, yes you should approach. But only when your confident and when you are attractive enough to yourself. Good luck!2