I know it's different for all guys, but i'm just curious as to how many look for these things.
- bodyVote A
- personallyVote B
- looksVote C
- certain features (brunette, blondes etc)Vote D
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The biggest thing for me (part of "compatibility") is a woman who is willing to be an active contributor to the "team." I've met a lot of women who were attractive and who were interested in me, but who are takers/leeches. They expect me (or any man they're with) to sustain them in various ways: financially, emotionally, mentally, etc. They demand huge amounts of time, attention, coordination, etc., but are put out if they have to make a compromise or contribute something. I've learned to quickly identify that trait and cut it off quickly.
I'm a generous person and I *like* to be, but lots of women abuse that and not only don't realize it, they're in complete denial of how entitled they are and how they feel that a guy "owes" them things: time, attention, emotional support, financial support, "going out", gifts, etc. etc. As a guy, I want to WANT to do those things, and I'd like it if she appreciated it when I did so - and some women are exactly that way - but so many EXPECT it in a very entitled way (several women have outright told me "I was spoiled growing up, and I expect to continue to be treated that way"), and that its a huge turn-off to me.
The other thing that's attractive is a woman who has a positive attitude and is happy to be happy and doesn't need to tear others down. That's hugely attractive to me, and likewise, women who are negative or who constantly tear others down to try to feel better about themselves are a huge turn-off.0
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