I have been dating him for over 5 months now and I know that I love him. I feel it. I wake up next to him and I know that I love him. This is the first SERIOUS relationship I've had in a long time. When we got together I had kind of sworn off men and then it hit me. We are both a little older (he's 28 and I'm 22) and more mature and comfortable with who we are and where we are going in life. I just want to tell him that I love him, not because I expect some kind of huge gesture to follow. Just because I want to tell him how I feel.
So, is it okay for a girl to say "I love you" first or would you feel pressured after that?
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I said it first around 6 months in. I think tell him, guys like to know they are wanted and cared for just as much as we do, and you could always throw in the "I don't need you to say anything I just wanted you to know"5