I am currently in the market for a boyfriend. The only problem seems to be that I am submissive and crave a man who is dominant... a real Dom who will care for me and own me the way I want to be owned. I can't seem to find one anywhere. I've tried dating sites like fetlife and all that with no luck at all. Suggestions?
Where can I find a real Dom?
What Guys Said 15
real Doms are sometimes not on fetlife. I'm a Dom and half of the "Doms" I meet in the scene are not worthy of the title.
The best thing to do is like the other girl said. Get out there. I introduced my ex submissive to a lot of people and when I let her go, she had a river of men to choose from. She chose a dumbass, but anyway 👍🏼1
The internet is the easiest place to lie about these things.
If you want to find a dom then you need to be able to identify one outside of the bedroom first. A true dom is a dom in all aspects of life, not just when you're having sex. Also you need to be a true sub outside of the bedroom.
And there are plenty of guys that would be considered doms but just don't claim the BDSM lifestyle. Don't just ask someone if they're a dom, you need to be able to discern it for yourself.0
Is that a real problem? I'd think that would be easy to find.0
Why didn't you had luck on dating sites, no one wrote you? Usually most guys are dominant it won't be a problem finding one.0
There's tons on fetlife.0
In da bungalow?0
My be on tinder... just give the info you are looking for and be anonymous0
bdsm is a mental illness, but cool.0
What do you mean by "who will care for me and own me the way I want to be owned"? Sounds to me like you're just some delusional, immature girl who's throwing tantrums and stomping her feet at how hard it is to find her Christian Grey. And what do you even look like anyway? Are you worth caring for, worth owning? Or are you more trouble and more hassle than you're worth?0
Love comes to you... when you least expect it0
What Girls Said 2
Nowhere. Men are pussies.0
I went to a local sex/swingers party with a friend and met one there. It was purely D/S with no intercourse, I like impact play and he loved shibari so we both got what we needed.
If you can befriend someone in the lifestyle it may be easier to find a Dom to suit your needs1
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