I'd love to hang out with my crush, but I don't know if he likes me back. I realize that I probably have to make the first move if I want to find out, but I'm terrified of being rejected. I've never dated anyone before, so I don't know how to act and I don't want it to be awkward if he says no. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
The way to get over it is to ask yourself what's the worst that could happen? If you ask him and he says no, will the sun still come out tomorrow? Will your family still love you? Will your dog still lick your face when you get home?
You only live once. This isn't something dangerous, or something that is going to change the course of your whole life. It's a chance to get to know someone better, someone who you really don't even know much about yet.
Think of it this way. This guy is lucky to get a chance to meet you. You are doing him a favor.
And he isn't Superman, he's only a human being. He too will be a little uncomfortable, probably flattered, and maybe if you are lucky already interested in you too. Either way if he is a guy worth getting to know, he will be nice to you even if he isn't interested in going that that far.
If he is rude, mean or disrespectful of your sincere and nice approach, he's not someone you want to be with anyway and you didn't lose anything.0
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone has been rejected and noone likes it but its just how life is. Its not fair and you can't always have what you want. But just remember if he does reject you then oh well. There are so many guys out here. He is one compared to the thousands of guys in your area who probably have more to offer than him.0