Let's list all the ways or actions or things men would say that would prove that he's just not that into you?
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Well, let's be honest, men will often say what they think you want to hear, especially if sex is on the table.
A lot depends on whether we are talking about a guy you are trying to get with or a guy that you are already with in some capacity, be it sexually or otherwise.
If a guy doesn't give you compliments, doesn't try to call you, doesn't like to touch you, doesn't pay attention to what you say, doesn't remember things about you and doesn't tell his friends about you or introduce you to them then it's fair to say that the most you would ever be is a hook up.2