Because I don't know why I am always brushed away and told you are to pretty to waste your time on me. Or they say "I live so far and I am focused on my career". I just don't get it, I've tried and no one is willing to give me the time of day. Most of the time I don't really want to think about how it makes me feel but it gets too me.
Guys, Do I need to be perfect for a guy to want to date me?
What Guys Said 18
Ask your best friends and girlfriends to be honest with you. Then ask them this:
"If there was one feature in me that made most guys not want to date me, what would it be?"
But to answer your question, no you don't have to be anywhere close to perfect to be date-able. I've yet to meet a guy who is perfect or looks for perfection in a partner.
Realize you're worth way more than your dating prospects and it takes most people a lifetime to find a life partner, so don't be discouraged.2
pretty girls are messed up. i was the guy who use to pursue them mainly based on hotness. i know game and use to get them... but being with them as life partners they are so whack and boring... they are the most insecure people due to the fact that society cnditioned to become slaves of vaidation... insecure people cause the most relationship problems but women dont kow its their fault often... they are rarely told no, or given proper truth that hurts them
i find your story hard to beleive though, because guys will take advantage and have sex with you first before moving on.
if you're all about personal growth and had great parents, you can avoid the curse that comes with beauty.0
You do not need to be perfect by any means. Keep at it, and talk to more guys. You'll eventually find one who's right for you. Good luck. =^.^=1
I wouldn't worry. Everyone finds someone and often guys are wht they say it are be it busy or far away lol. I don't expect perfection from anyone1
Nobody is perfect.1
You're more likely perfect already, even with your flaws. Just be yourself.1
No, but if you want to keep him, you best be striving for perfect. Don't have to be it, but should try0
Of course not. no one is perfect. Im pretty sure youve just met the wrong kinds of men. Maybe try to talk to the less extroverted and "loud" guys?1
No you have to be your self. And be confident. Men love that.1
Nobody is perfect. Just be yourself.
No you don't need to be perfect. No woman or man on earth is, not even magazine models. Listen those guys are full of excuses. There intimidated by you too.
By the way what is your definition of perfect?0
I don't mind long distance.0
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