I like a girl, she likes me too,
and she blew off all the other guys in her life for me,
but I just can't accept the fact that she had dudes before me, im just not able to love her openly.
I feel like something is lacking and i can never love her from heart,
I have started to become cold with her and she is trying to get my attention by every possible way but i just dont feel that love.
is something wrong with me?
- You are fine, every guy wants to be the first man in a woman's life, just dump her and find another woman.11% (1)12% (1)12% (2)Vote
- You are shallow and selfish and you are an insecure person. you are bad person.89% (8)38% (3)65% (11)Vote
- Other (pls explain)0% (0)50% (4)23% (4)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think there's anything wrong with people being shallow. They have their standards and they are confident enough to stand up for what they think they deserve. Sometimes it gets out of hand, like only wanting to date millionaires, but if that's your standard, good for you. I have standards. I wouldn't date someone who smokes or has a criminal record. Does that make me shallow? Probably, but those are things that would bother me to the point of breaking up the relationship anyways so might as well not try it.1
Most Helpful Guy
The vast majority of girls that you meet will have had at least some experience with another guy before you, that's just life. To be insecure about someone who isn't even a factor anymore is just a waste of energy. You don't need to be the first, you just need to be you. You are the person that she is interested in, you have the opportunity to be the best person she has known. That is a blessing which you should be grateful for.1