Met this girl that I've been pretty interested in. We've hooked up twice now since I moved to university here. It's pretty rare for me to look at any girl as relationship material but I really like this one. I think I'm pretty decent at flirting and sex, but when it comes that transition on my end, I'm pretty fucking terrible and that's self admitted.
Most girls are turned off by me in a matter of time because I don't really filter myself when I talk to a girl. I talk to guys the same way I'll talk to a girl. I have a pretty crude sense of humor and most girls get turned off or triggered by something in matter of time. Either that or I come across as aloof so girls take that as I'm an ass.
To pretty much cliffnote it.. I'm used to just playing the game to get girls interested in me so I can get sex. I don't want her to think I'm only trying to fuck her. I'm not about to do some sappy shit either, because that's not me.
Most Helpful Girl
Romantic stuff can be the #1 solution but i know you won't do it so just hang out with her at night go see a movie together , have a drink (not at a bar in no way) or go for a walk
Also movie at home would be awesome but dont fuck her after the movie lol. That is what would make me think he is not playing games. It takes some time tho. Patience0
Most Helpful Guy
You have to start inviting her to hangout outside of the bedroom. You have to show her that you are having fun with her even without sex. Maybe go see a movie or go to a mall or a cafe. Daytime activities.
You could also invite her to your place and cook a nice dinner for her and afterwards cuddle while watching TV. But don't make the same mistake I did lol if you're going to cook for her, do it only on rare occasions cause otherwise she's gonna expect you to cook all the time.2