I've been messaging the guy I like and I'm trying to figure out if he likes me back. Do I come off as too desperate if I'm the one who usually messages first? This may be a little obsessive, but I counted it up, and I've initiated the conversation 8 times while he's only initiated 4. Would it be bad for me to message him tonight (the last message was Thursday)? If not, what are some things I could say to him? Thanks in advance!
Most Helpful Guy
no it doesn´t, you´re not in kindergarden. if you want to text them, text them. if they are not interested in you, you won´t change that by waiting for their text XD
as to what to say: it´s always helpful to ask them about something you know they are interested in. or just tell them about something you like and ask them for something they like in return.0
Most Helpful Girl
In my opinion, it depends on a few things such as; who didn't text back, was the conversation good or was he being dry, who initated the last text. If he usually doesn't text back or is dry, then let him text you but if he shows interest when texting, it's okay to text him first.0