Ill make this short- we are both interested in each other. We haven't talked in person but we talk online and we live too far to see each other commonly. Anyways, he has asked me out a couple times this past week but he had to cancel due to something that came up (it checked out, he want lying)... that was this Friday, he apologized for cancelling and seemed really sorry. I said no problem, and asked to reschedule. I thought he'd like that since he was the one to ask me out and tell me his schedule and to pick a day and time in the first place, but after I asked to reschedule, he never responded but opened my message. A day later I asked if he wanted to try for this Friday again (since that's when we had made plans before) and again, he opened my messaged and never responded. What's his deal? He seriously told me that we were going to hang out hands down, how excited he was, and we planned the whole night. And we have been talking for months now so it isn't like a week thing. I know him well enough to say that he isn't toying with me or seeing someone else, but I don't get why he wouldn't respond to my messages to reschedule when the last 2.5 weeks he has been initiating to see me and saying it'll happen. He seriously went from hot to cold and I don't get what I did. It has been 2 days and he has not responded. It's the beginning of the week, and I know he works every day so maybe he's checking his schedule? But why wouldn't he message me that? I can't send him another message because he has ignored mine already.
And by not talking in person I mean we've never really met
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You're not overreacting. Ignore the people here who post stupid and unhelpful comments when they haven't read the description. Generic advice like "Move on, he wasn't interested" CLEARLY DO NOT APPLY IN YOUR CASE.
Sounds to me like he was interested and he's just not that polite a person. I have a similar thing with a female friend. I. e. she knows me, so she's not "not in to me or doesn't want to know me". She's been continuously mentioning she'll be so happy to see me now she's moving to my country for a long time. Texted recently and again she says she hopes to meet up soon. After I text her suggesting we do, she read it and blanked me (I can see she's active on viber last seen time etc).
I think people who "ghost" are just bad people. I honestly don't know what to do though, I think we are both good people and they are just weird tbh. I know how you feel. It really really hurts. And you can't do anything right?1
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