Now days, women are just as shallow as men about looks.
- Yeah, women are shallow as men now days about looks.27%(9)37%(20)Vote52%(11)
- If there are 2 dudes, and both act confident, then the woman will always chose the good looking dude among the two.27%(9)30%(16)Vote33%(7)
- Women look at the personality not looks.21%(7)13%(7)Vote0%(0)
- Other (give your comments)25%(8)20%(11)Vote15%(3)
Most Helpful Girl
I said other. Everyone is different. I, personally, have always been and still am, incredibly attracted to my SO... probably more than any other guy I've ever dated, which is great because it seriously matters to me We all have our own types. I happen to read up on the science-y things behind love and attraction so... my level of attraction to him is extremely fitting compared to how naturally compatible we are.
Basically the same hormonal 'ingredients' that make up our core personality... also make up our appearance. ;) So a part of acknowledging that you find someone externally attractive... means that you likely appreciate what those traits mean about their personality. So for one example... testosterone plays a role in personality AND in physical features. It causes certain testosterone typical responses... and the level can be seen in things like facial hair and certain facial structures. It's a pretty lengthy topic... but it's something we subconsciously do the more we meet people... we unconsciously recognize similarities in features and behaviors across multiple people and put them in sort of a systematic mental rolodex... and without even realizing it... we 'recognize' mixtures of the personality traits we respect... in various combos. We recognize these things in features we CONSCIOUSLY would almost consider benign! Like the density of the pits in someone's eyes!
Ad infinitum... basically... many many things about what we see on the outside generically reflect what's going on inside.1
Most Helpful Guy
SOME women are shallow.
SOME men are shallow.