Guys, would you do that if you could?
My boyfriend has been spoiling me a lot. I mean, I love what he gets me and he really has the means while I don't, but I feel a little embarrassed/uncomfortable. I would hate it if he ever thought that's what our relationship is all about.
He also never lets me pay for meals whatsoever (he will say "that's out of question" and get really serious if I ask) and I wonder wether he's trying to pamper me or he just thinks I'm too poor to treat him with nice dinners.
Most Helpful Guy
Please don't feel bad, embarrassed or uncomfortable about it! It's our duty to take care of and provide for our lady and he's doing exactly that. :)
I also don't think he's just doing it because he thinks you're poor. My girlfriend makes a ton of money herself but I never let her pay for anything in our relationship! haha
My advice is to let him treat you like a princess and enjoy it. :)4
Most Helpful Girl
I never had an issue with it until I got older. I don't believe love is items it's how you treat each other it's the time you spend with each other. But my ex used items to show me he loved me he was very big on things. Don't get me wrong we did what I wanted to but he used to spend thousands of dollars on me trying to prove his love more than anything else. When we broke up I had all of these things that no longer felt like mine. I felt like I owed him, even when we were still together. I hated it.1