My boyfriend just recently told me that he loves me after us being together for a month. We'd talked before this and were friends but just recently got to know each other a lot better and are getting close. We talk everyday for hours, I see him a few times a week... do you think he said "I love you" too soon?
- Yes, it is too soonVote A
- No, if he feels he loves you, he does... it is fineVote B
- OtherVote C
Most Helpful Guy
Soon or later he should tell that0
Most Helpful Girl
I've read studies that say guys know if a girl is right for him after 4 dates, but it takes girls 14-17. Love always starts out as infatuation, so this is the correct feeling for him to have at this stage for it to turn into real love.
Well he just said he loves you, it's not like he just asked you to marry him. Some guys fall faster than others, or maybe they're just too scared to admit it most of the time because girls freak out on him.
Give it a couple of months and see what happens. He may get over the initial infatuation stage, but he may love you. His feeling for you right now is that he loves you. Is your problem that you don't believe him or you don't want him to love you?0