I was cheated by a girl who was married and had a kid, she told me that she was single and the child was her brother!!! Her husband stayed away from her due to his job !! I broke off with her and have never seen her in the past months!! Now the problem is that i am not able to trust anyone !! I tried getting into a relationship with someone else but i am just not able to trust that anyone! What should i do now? please help me !!! What can help me to get back to normal? i can't really trust anyone?
Girls, how can I manage to be in a stable normal relatonship with after being cheated badly?
What Girls Said 3
I know it's easier said than done but keep reminding yourself that not all people are cheaters and that other girls deserve to also not be treated like they are cheaters if they haven't done anything to show this. Also it may take time naturally for you to process this. It may not be overnight. You need to give yourself time out and not get involved with anyone while you are still getting over it. Remind yourself too of the many people in healthy, happy relationships with no cheating :)) Look for inspiration from friends and family.1
Wow that's really awful... sorry to hear that. I can definitely understand how trust is an issue. Well first... it's going to take a bit of time to get over it. But it's going to take a lot from you. If you go in meeting every girl assuming she's lying to you, then nothing will ever happen. As hard as its going to be, you're going to have to let your guard down just a little bit. Not everyone is going to lie to you and what happen to you is not something that happens often. It's unfortunate really, but if you keep letting your past dictate the present or future, you'll never date again all because one inconsiderate "B" ruined it for all the others that will come along.1
Wow that sucks. Sorry you went through that. Maybe just take time off to fully heal before you get back into the dating world. Also just remember that not everyone is like that woman. Your special someone is out there.1
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