I am 23 years old, I am a virgin (I have never had any kind of sexual relationship) and my dream is to save myself for marriage because I have always dreamed of surrendering myself to the love of my life. It turns out I started dating a few weeks ago, a guy that I'm almost certain of is no longer a virgin... And I'm really liking him! He knows I'm a virgin and he always respected me, but he still does not know my dream.
How can I tell you about my will? What if he does not accept it? I fear he will abandon me for this, but at the same time I can not let go of my dream.
Please, don't say that I can have "another ways" to please him, because I think this is sex anyway.
Most Helpful Guy
Just tell him. If he doesn't accept it, then he isn't the one you want to be with. No, it's not easy, but a man that loves you and wants to be with you will accept that. Even if it's hard, he'll do it because he loves you.2
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly. You must say the guy honestly that you do not want a sexual relationship before marriage. You have to find the right words. If he loves you, he agreed to wait)1