So there's this guy that has been "flirting" with me on social media for some time now - we went to highschool together but were never really friends. I saw him out at the bar a few times I said hi to him but he didn't offer to buy me a drink or ask me for my number. he's a little antisocial and I think he's insecure. He doesn't ask me out directly, he just puts on Facebook or Twitter when he goes out, expecting me to be there. Should I go?
Most Helpful Guy
You are assuming he expects you to be there, or that's a wish you would like to be real?
I think you both just win with exploring and developing the things that may unite you both. Sure, a walk, coffee watever... but don't make it feel like a date, do it as a random occasion, no pressure, just some time doing random stuff... it's the best for both to make sense of it.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sure, if you want to.0