How long should you know someone before you ask them out, nothing fancy just coffee?
What Girls Said 8
It depends on how you ask them out, asking them out for coffee can just seem like a simple, normal thing if you don't stress it or overthink it. If you meet someone and fancy them & you talk for some time and exchange numbers, its ok to grab a coffee together, so it can be directly after meeting someone, but usually people don't do that. Its more about how friendly you are with them rather than how long you know them. If you've had more than like 5 conversations i'm sure its fine to just be like "Hey want grab a coffee together?"0
Clicked with a man after talking for about 3/4 days. He asked me out :] Upcoming date.
So, it varies. I've had men I've known for a while that took forever to ask me out. & Then there are a few that it was under a week or so.
When you feel comfortable with them and go "you know what? I REALLY like you" <- Ask her out ASAP1
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It varies for everyone. If it was just for a coffee, I'd say a few days or weeks. Whatever you do, don't wait too long and leave it for years. Or she will have lost interest by then. I've had a few guys take non verbal interest in me before. One of which waited 2 years before he even decided that he wanted to try talking to me. Of course I had lost interest in him and moved on.0
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This is not a manual. There isn't a rule book:
Step one talk for a week or 3 months
Step two wait till the sun rises to ask her for coffee
This is more on ur social skills rather then when is the right time. And also if u paid attention see the sign of interest0
30 seconds. REALLY.0
A couple of days or so. There are no rules.1
What Guys Said 15
I've gotten girls to agree to a meeting on tinder after about 5-7 texts. If you start out texting her with a decent first conversation (any kind of back and forth conversation at all is decent) just wait until the point where there's not much else to say and randomly ask her if she wants to do this thing or that thing.
In case you were wondering when there's not much else to say, its the point in the conversation at which you would ordinarily become bored if you werent already talking to a cute girl with the purpose of asking her out. lol. So its like "do i really want to say this next thing?" vs "am I just delaying the point at which I might be accepted for a date?"0
There's no minimum. You can ask a girl out the minute you meet her if you want.0
No need to know them at all.1
Negative time frame. You don't even need to know someone to ask them for coffee0
Right away? I mean, how else can you get to know them?1
I don't follow any standard, if we click, I ask, unless she asks first.0
First you have to seduce them... read 50 Shades of Gray and get some ideas.0
Ask them for coffee so you get to know them0
Meh didn't know there was a timetable. My record is 2.5 hours from meeting to fucking.0
As soon as possible guys ask girls out all the time and if you don't so is ASAP someone else could snap them up, I once waited for the right moment with a girl I really liked for two month as soon as I plucked up the courage she started seeing this other guy0
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