I met a really amazing guy and we've been texting, talking on the phone and spending all kinds of time together. We get along pretty well and I think we're on the same page as far as what we're looking for. I have spent the night at his house the last two nights and we slept in the same bed. And he has not tried at all to have sex with me. After the first night, I thought maybe it was just nerves or he was being respectful. After this second night, I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me? I've never had this happen before. He just goes to sleep. Every guy I've been with has tried to get it on the first night. Not that they get it, but they at least try. I don't know what to think.
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Maybe he is concerned that if he tries to have sex with you now, you will assume that is his only interest in you. It may be a difficult subject to discuss in a relatively new relationship, but having a discussion about this would be a very healthy step for you to take with him.1