Most Helpful Guy
I love taking women on dates but there are 4 main reasons I can think of off the top of my head as to why men don't want to take women on dates anymore:
1. It's too much work. Men feel like they have to jump through hoops just to make a women feel even remotely interested and even then they may be hot and cold, or play too many games.
2. Linked to number 1. Guys don't feel as if their efforts are appreciated. They don't have to be rewarded with a date if the girl really is not interested but some girls will straight up act like straight up bitches even if the guy is genuine and sincere with his approaches. Simply put, some girls these days have too much of a bad attitude. They are not worth the effort.
3. This current generation are more into hook ups and fwbs and some girls make it too easy for a guy (that's not to say they're easy, just means they would prefer sexual relations rather than being courted) to get what he wants, or what he thinks he wants. Many guys will have sex with a girl if it's easy even if that's not what their main aim was. Then they'll try and find another girl to date after deeming the first one isn't datable after putting out on the first date.
4. Lots of guys just don't know how to ask a girl out these days. Whether it's because they are shy or awkward or have anxiety.5
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Most Helpful Girl
More and more people seem to be just after sex so it starts of as a date and could turn into a one night stand. The ones who are scared of commitment especially.
Some men think that all they have to do to get a woman interested and maintain that interest is give them successions of looks and the occasional standing next to. But are never willing to at least break the ice with us so that we can meet them halfway and eventually ask them out when we think they would be potential boyfriend material. So therefore guys like this don't put enough effort in, in the first place. So they expect the woman to do all the work for them instead. If they don't do it. Then the women are left to read body language and are left second guessing as to whither this guy is attention seeking or genuine. Its s bit one sided if they aren't even capable of any verbal communication and we have to do all of the talking for them.1