I've been seeing this guy for a while, I honestly don't know if/how serious things between us are gonna get, but he doesn't know I'm bi/have had flings with a few girls and I'm kinda hesitant to tell him. I feel like if we get any more serious I'll have to tell him anyway and if it's a dealbreaker for him, I'm just gonna be more badly hurt. So, do I tell him now?
Most Helpful Guy
Same question I'm thinking about if I start talking to a girl 😑
Sorry I can't help.
You obviously should be open and honest, but that puts you in the predicament of possibly missing out on a great love.
Yes is the moral way
No is selfish, but I understand completely1
Most Helpful Girl
If he asks, go for it but I don't see a reason to otherwise (unless he's a homophobe). Nobody puts time aside to tell their SO that they're straight. Plus if you're happy and in love with him why take the time to specifically tell him you like girls lol. Keep it casual like any other fact about you. If he asks, answer. If not, go about your day like usual.1