So e hang out a lot but with other people. i want to hang out alone but he wants to know what i 'want'. i don't 'want' anything but to hang out alone and see how it goes. but he might think i'm just evading and that means i don't like him. i don't want pressure of calling it a date, but i don't want him thinking i don't like him. wish he could just hang out and not worry about what it is.
we've known each other 16 months but only hung out half that time. 3 months when we met and 3 months recently. about 3 times a week. we spent time together alone in the beginning but i didn't know how to go slow, as in i thought either you have sex or don't get involved, and i wasn't ready for sex. so i didn't get involved.
i understand things better now and i want to try again. i don't want to rush but its been over a year so i also don't want to waste time.
do you think i wanna date or hang out?
- call it a date. you like him. liking and hanging out= date.. not a big deal.. if that scares him move on.0%(0)100%(2)Vote100%(2)
- call it hanging out. if he needs to know what you want tell him you like him gut you just want to hang out for now.0%(0)0%(0)Vote0%(0)