I've been talking to a lady for about two weeks now via text and we agreed to meet.
Me: I really really enjoyed talking to very much, way better than texting. You are so intriguing to me. You can call me anytime. Hope to hear from you soon.
Her: I'll call you tomorrow. I'm going to bed now. You have a preference if time? I'm off tomorrow.
Me: I'm off all week.
Her: Oh well damn we should meet in person one day... i work everyday BUT tomorrow 😑
Me: Anytime is fine Vi. I'm going to let you lead. Whatever makes you feel comfortable is ok with me.
Her: What about tomorrow for breakfast?
Me: Tomorrow is good 830 is good
So about 6am this morning I get this
Her: Honestly, Wednesday was my only free morning this week. I was just gona try & squeeze you in today but... I don't feel like it.
A "squeeze in meeting" is what you do when you're meeting someone that you really don't wana meet lol. I'd rather have more than a 2 hour block of time, that's all. This is me learning how not to avoid the red flags. Enjoy your holidays!!
Me: Don't understand but okay. You do the same. It was nice talking with you.
Will someone be so kind as to translate what just happened and what does learning how to avoid the red flags mean. Is she saying I waved a red flag somehow? This new dating is confusing asf.
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I mean, it CAN be a pretty big red flag, but she also said that she's really busy with work and stuff. Her choice of words probably wasn't the best, but you guys have obviously made good conversation and she's just trying to make time in her schedule for you! So, if anything, that's a sign of interest really! And maybe something came up and she's lost a bit of the enthusiasm that she was having for the date! It happens! So don't worry about it too much, if she likes you she'll bounce back as her usual self. If she hasn't really flirted or shown too much interest, then now would be a good time to slowly drift away without much trouble on either end. I think that she's interested though! She's just really busy! Try arranging a date next week! I hope this was helpful :)1