What is your opinion on when a girl tells you she doesn't want a relationship during the first date?

The question says it all. Most of the time this statement seems to come later on down the road so it's a surprise to hear up front. Thoughts?

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16d This question doesn't necessairly have to do with me. I live by the three H's, hangout, hookup and have fun. I dont try to make it complicated.

It did happen to me though, however it did go really well and she continues to contact me. She did get out of a 9 year relationship a year ago, I'm pretty sure her statement is a literal and not a I don't like you - since she did in fact state that she did.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • She's upfront. Or she's gaming you. I can't tell. Better be playful about it and don't get your hopes up just in case.

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What Girls Said 1

  • She wanted to be clear with you. I consider that admirable. Not many people do that. They usually string along the other person.

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What Guys Said 3

  • My thoughts? It was a freakin disaster of a first date lmao.

    Sorry bud plenty more fish in the sea.

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  • During = "So why on earth are we here?"
    After = "Was the first date that bad?"

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    • 16d

      Naaa it wasn't bad at all. She did get out of a 9 year relationship last year so I'm pretty sure she just wants to have fun. Just wondering what other people think of these things.

  • If she says it early, you are ugly irl.
    If she says it later, the date sucked.

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