How do you reject someone?

Are you honest or do you give them lame excuses?



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Most Helpful Guy

  • How to reject someone. I've learned don't make
    your self available for them , If they call tell them
    your running errands for a elderly aunt and uncle.
    They text you just tell them your busy cooking
    supper for a neighbor lady , got take your little
    cousin to a dance classes. There is always plenty
    of excuses to use to reject someone. The worst
    thing is to male your self available for them.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Lame excuses will just hurt them eventually even more than honesty. At least they have a chance to move on eventually if you're honest and up front about why you're rejecting them. Do not patronize someone who cares about you with some lame excuse.

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What Guys Said 18

  • most chicks use lame ass excuses and/or just ignore u... like question... im looking at u, turn back and walk away... im 2 years old i can't handle a conversation... god forbid u have a normal conversation and see if the two of u can work something out like two adults. i guess they dont make adult male and females anymore? so no one tries.

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  • Assuming I'm single at the time; it depends on why I'm rejecting them.

    If it's something that I think will hurt their feelings, I try to come up with a nicer lie. If not, then I'll just be honest.

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  • Tell them straight up, I'd rather a girl tell me straight up than to lead me to believe she does like me and blow me off when I try to meet

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  • Well I don't have to ever worry about rejecting anyone. But you could tell them you are not interested honestly. Or you could say that you are not looking for a relationship at the moment.

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  • if it´s about them visually, i will honey coat it or straight up lie, cause i don´t want them to to feel bad about themselves. if it´s personal things that won´t make them feel bad, then i will be straight up but kind.

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  • Lame excuse. I hate turning away women with whom I'm not attracted. If it happened more often, I'd probably know exactly what to say. Typically, I'm caught off guard.

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  • In the past I have given some pretty shitty excuses with a tone that made it pretty obvious I wasn't interested. I hate having to reject people, it makes me feel bad.

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  • I'm sorry but I just don't feel the same.

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  • Tell them you eat souls 😛

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  • Lame excuse.
    No need to hurt anyone's feelings.

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  • i dun reject people

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  • A fat chick was lovin' me when I was about 17.. and I said.

    "Fuck off"

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  • "I'm sorry I can't because you can't just kick my balls for no reason"

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  • Honest...

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  • honest

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  • honest, it'll stop much quicker

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  • I never have now that I think about it.

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  • yeah because women are flocking at me... .

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What Girls Said 14

  • I guess being honest is not always the best choice. Being direct though is necessary. What I mean is you can't say "You're a stupid, ugly person I'd never date". But you have to say smth that clarifys that you are not interested like "I don't see "us" working".

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  • it depends, if i can use a lame excuse that makes an awkward situation temporarily easier so i can get away, then im all for lame excuses. Otherwise, ill go with honest.

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  • I'd just say I'm already talking to another person. Usually it's not a lie. I'm usually flirting with at least one guy at a time.

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  • I am honest but nice too.

    I wouldn't reject someone in a rude manner

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  • It is hard for me because I don't want to hurt anyone but I am not showing too much interest - I am not texting first, not writing much, short answers etc.

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  • Sorry man, "I'm lesbian!"

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  • I give lame excuses
    "my cactus needs me rn"
    "I'm taken but my mom's cats daughter is single "

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  • Just say it straight ahead
    I dont want this friendship/relationship

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  • Just honesty

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  • Whenever I am honest about it it doesn't seem enough for them. If I just say I am not attracted to them or feel no chemistry, they think I am bullshitting them and there must be some hidden reason I am just keeping from them on purpose... smh.

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  • Honest but be nice

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  • Lame excuse

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  • I just Normally act crazy then they will think they dodged a bullet

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  • Depends. If they have low self-esteem, I lie and say "I have a boyfriend". If they are a fuckboy I tell them straight up "nope" and if they ask why, I tell them. If they are someone I'm just not interested in (doesn't mean they're ugly) I will say "I'm not ready to date rn" I know, I'm wrong for lying but I feel bad rejecting most people

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