He won't meet me. We started talking on tinder in August. We then exchanged phone numbers, facebooks and even snapchat names. I know he is who he is because we have a mutual friend who I have talked to about this guy and they used to work together. He is also for sure single. He dated a girl for 7 years and they broke up in February of this year.
Anyways, he has helped me with the loss of my grandma and has always been a very positive person, helping me with any hardships I go through. We both relate. Were both single and lonely and we've had our hearts broken in the past.
He flirts with me and jokes about marriage one day. He tells me how beautiful I am and he makes me feel special.
He just hasn't met me face to face. He's always traveling for work so I get it but when he is home, he doesn't make an effort to meet. Always something else going on. Some other plans. And maybe he is busy but its exhausting. What do you think is going on? His words makes me feel he's interested but his actions don't.
Guys? Girls? Can you explain this...
Confused & hopeless
I give points to all answers.
Most Helpful Girl
I think he's afraid of going to another relationship cos 7 years is a very long relationship and it might need more time than what you think to recover. At the same time he needs someone to be with, but maybe without the pressure of dating. Some guys use texting as an alternative and they don't take the second step because of their fear as I mentioned earlier. Have you tried to initiate and ask him to meet? Maybe try and see what he responds and he might open up to you and tells you why he's avoiding that! I had the same experience and the guy was scared of a new date, but we met in the end.. Don't lose hope !1
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