Me and this guy kissed at a party and I realised straight away I fucked up. This guy didn't know my boyfriend was a guy he knew and at the end of the night he must of told my boyfriend out of guilt.
Me: Why are you so silent with me?
Him: I know what you Cheated. Stfu. Bye.
Me: Sorrryyyy I didn't mean it I swr.
Him: OK darling
Me: it was ONE kiss. 😑
Him: OK well it's time to text him again for that second kiss. Have fun!
Me: Really? babe.
Me: ANSWER YOUR PHONE 😈
Him: Blocked bye bitch.
Me: you probably wanted this to happen ass hole. Gives you a easy exit.
Now he's ignoring me. At Uni he doesn't even look at me. If I talk to him he doesn't respond he pretends I'm dead. This is so hurtful. My friends don't know what happened and I guess he deleted the out of his life to? How could he so ready to quit? Over one kiss? Which I didn't initiate?
Most Helpful Guy
Your in the wrong, he's in the right. One kiss, is still cheating, just like going 1 mile over the speed limit is still speeding. Now, its not sex, I'll give you that (at least I hope you didn't). If I were him, I would be pissed, and I would only forgive you if I TRULY loved you, and you TRULY felt bad, and apologized.
However, where you went wrong, and probably destroyed any chance of getting back to together, is this "Me: you probably wanted this to happen ass hole. Gives you a easy exit.". You called him an asshole, for something you did, then went on to play victim and insulted him. Instead, you should of apologized, sucked up your pride, and let your heart out. But you made excuses, acted like a victim, and thats why he's ignoring you.
In the end, you aren't asking did I hurt him, how to fix it, what to do, you aren't showing any effort to even try to get back, or acknowledging what you did was wrong. Instead, you are asking if its ok to be hurt, If its ok to treat him like an ass, a diva, and get away with it, and play victim. It shows selfishness, and it shows you truly don't care about his feelings. Which is why you two probably won't get back together, I hope for his sake.0
Most Helpful Girl
You let a guy kiss you, and you called your boyfriend an asshole? He has the right to be angry.
He sounds really hurt and it was the right thing he did that because even if he did forgive you, he wouldn't trust you anymore.
What you are feeling is guilt.1