he said he would have sex with her and if made me cry a lot, he said if he was singke yeah he would as she's really fit etc and I asked why he would say that and he said he just would but he said now he's with me it doesn't mean anything as he's with me? I'm still hurt even if he was angry he said he still meant it and it's made me feel terrible how am I supposed to watch her if he's thinking that?
Most Helpful Guy
If he said it to hurt you then it was a bit spiteful and he shouldn't have had to go to such lengths. It's possible to have an argument or a debate without being deliberately nasty.
Putting that aside, guys will see a number of girls that they find somewhat attractive on any given day. For that matter, so will most girls. It's meaningless. It is not the fact that we'll never be attracted to anyone else that keeps us with someone, it is choice that keeps us with someone. Nobody every said that when you're in a relationship you'll never be attracted to anyoen else. You just don't even consider doing anything with anyone else when you're committed to your partner.
Don't have unrealistic expectations of what a relationship means or what love means. It doesn't stop you being human. You choose somebody for so much more than looks alone.3
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Most Helpful Girl
Well, what the guys said. I've been through that with my boyfriend. I explained him that I really dont like it and he stopped. It's not nice but they don't get it. However, surprisingly, when you do the same they freak out in their own way. At least mine did. No mentions after I did him the same and then explained how it's not nice for me.0