So Im starting to have a thing for this guy. At first I think there was an attraction there between us but that's it. After that, everything was really cordial until recently. There's been sparks and a lot of flirting. I didn't think I would like him but I do. I'm just a little bummed out that we won't be going nowhere because of one thing and that's that he smokes cigarettes. He smokes though like it's a ritual like one of those who need to have a smoke, goes outside to have a cig, comes in and smells. I'm not into that but it sucks cause I would give him a chance if he didn't smoke but since he does there's just no point in going along with it. Other than that, I do have a thing for him. He makes me laugh, he's smart, he's ambitious, confident maybe cocky but he acknowledges it, I like his style and other stuff. I wouldn't even waste my time telling him to quit if we started dating cause it just seems like that's who he is. I can point it out if it comes up but who knows what he'll think or what will happen.
Am I wrong for not giving him a chance because of this?
What Guys Said 1
I wouldn't date a smoker either. Bad breath when kissing would be a total turn off. Plus the smelly clothes.0
What Girls Said 2
hi, well is the worst thing at the moment that its the smell and taste of the smoking that is effecting you? if so you could explain this and suggest gum after he has had a smoke and take it from there because if you two work out he may well be willing to try to quit for the sake of your relationship. a smoker if youve never been one doesn't often really like their own habit talking from experience and a partner who enables and assists them to quit is a great incentive, i wouldn't give up just yet as it sounds like you get on great. try and go with the whole smell taste thing first and see where it goes from there, give him a chance to suit you better at least surely? xx0
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