Awe! I'm so sorry this is happening to you!
It sound like your boyfriend is pretty tired after work though. What does he do for a living?
When I lived with my ex, I would want to do mindless stuff when I got in the door. That meant I would lay on the couch and absorb my mind in facebookland. I know that sounds crazy, but my brain (due to my job) is on so many different tasks at any given time. It's nice to come home and just disengage. It's not that I don't like hearing about a persons day. But my ex would literally wear me down from telling me about his day. I'm an introvert, and he's very social and goes into all the details of his day. And talks about stuff that I really don't need to know about (ie. inside jokes with co-workers that I just wouldn't get, cuz I'm not there! or go through the entire detail of how he processes his work).
He would literally talk me down for 2 hours or more if I didn't disengage. He would get so upset that I wanted to just have a few minutes to myself.
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LOLLLLL WOWWWW
That's not what you EVER say to a girl
My 15 year old crush knows not to say that. Actually, he enjoys when I bombard him with messages bc he knows Icare and he llovesloves to flirt in return.
Next time he says that say "you act full of your own importance yet you never see me bringing that one up."
He sounds like an asshole. That behaviour is not acceptable.
He texted "your" when he meant "you're". Ugh. That's an egregious offense all by itself. Why is he hell did he text you If he didn't want to talk to you. That's not normal; it's dickheaded.
well he needs to be more polite. but it would be nice that if you know he likes to relax when he first gets home from work if you gave him time to do so
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I don't blame you for feeling unwanted/hurt. I would too. Even if he is busy, it doesn't excuse the way he acted about it.
Don't know you two at all obviously, but I feel you can do better.I don't know, but he used the wrong form of "your" and that's something you're supposed to learn in third grade. So I say dump him!
I'm pretty sure they're not supposed to act like that at least I don't and I've been dating my girlfriend about the same time, and I don't treat her like that.
noo? that's rude af. I'd bitch my boyfriend out for that, or break up with him so he doesn't have to deal with my neediness anymore
No! I've been dating this guy who finishes working at 3am. We still talk after his work (if I'm still awake that is, haha)
This guy honestly sounds like a jerkAside from his shit grammar, no... he's a selfish asshole.
I would not accept behavior like this from my boyfriend, he def could have phrased it better, but he doesn't care about your feelings.
Move on or give him the cold shoulder for a while and see how he reacts. He shouldn't be treating you like that.
Reply that all you're asking for is that he retake 'basic grammar for grade threes.
A year. You should be living together or married.
More importantly, you don't seem to be a good emotional fit.
I'd break up.This is not a healthy relationship. Hellll nooo I would not put up with that bull shit
I don't see anything wrong with this, despite it being taken out of context.
He doesn't care about you and you could do better than him
The way he put it was wrong.
Nope. You already know that though.
I would personally never say that to my girlfriend
You needy a new boyfriend
No way
An uncool dude
LET THE GUY RELAX
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