He has been with other girls before and before I do anything sexual with him I want to ask him to get tested but I don't know how to bring it up or say it. We have been together for 3 months now and I want to bring this up so I am being safe and responsible. Will he get offended or will he be understanding about this?
Most Helpful Guy
If he does than that is his problem.
You are doing the right thing, be prepared to also ask to be tested.6
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell him! Remember that this is about SAFETY! If he gets offended, then there is a chance he has something and he isn't for you! You ask him. And you explain your stance. Don't be afraid to speak up. Because if you don't he will take advantage of you. And if you can't deal with the responsibility then you wait to have sex. Preferably in marriage, but it's your choice. It is a risk regardless to whether or not he is STD free. Because regardless, if that relationship ends and you gave away your virginity, you're done. It's over, and you can't get it back, and you will have to deal with the hard bed you made. This is the make or break, so you better ask him and not delay. Or else you've wasted 3 months with somebody who is stringing you along for sex.2