First of all, I am not one of those Tinder girls who require "6ft+ or gtfo" i think height is the most irrevelant thing. I was texting with a guy in tinder for a while. Suddenly he asked how tall I am. WTF? I am 160 think it is sth around 5'3". 3" shorter than average in my country but does it matter? of course he is right to want a tall girl. I saw many guys with height requirements and I am OK with it but asking my height is sth like asking his income
isn't it rude to ask girls height on Tinder?
What Guys Said 16
I always lol at the height issue. No offense but if you worried about height your most likely not paying attention to what actually matters. Unless your only after casual sex or something, then pffft have at it. Height issue for me only matters if its like dwarfism. Other than that there is also an ego thing some guys have where, in their minds, if your taller than them then their masculinity is in jeopardy. I dont get it. Ego's3
Height is okay, income is not lol. I think most girls prefer to date taller men and that's understandable if it is a deal breaker to get it out of the way early.
If income is a deal breaker then Id try to figure that out early on too but you can't be direct about that or a man will think you're very materialistic or a gold digger1
no i don't think it's rude to ask a person's height0
It's not rude. I don't think he asked because he wants a tall girl, he just doesn't want you to be taller than him (you probably passed that test), or he's asking it just to see your response, as an experiment since girls on tinder are so hung up on height.0
I don't not have any height requirement for a girl lol 😊
I don't think it is rude to ask though because it is online. People want to know0
What is the problem by asking it?
Would it be rude if i asked your hair size?
People just like to better visualize the person they are knowing, just that.0
Girls are usually the ones who are picky about height, it is irrelevant but a lot of people care a lot about things that don't matter.0
They ask that just to make sure you're not taller than them or because they like shorter and smaller girls1
I think he asked to make sure he is taller.
By the way 160cm is good and normal for a girl and I think girls with this height looks more cutie that taller girls😋
But of course its just my opinion maybe other boys think different.1
lmao no, its not rude. unless that girl is insecure about her height0
He was likely asking as a troll to the fact that the majority of females on tinder want 6ft plus.1
how the hell is that rude? women think everything is rude. get over yourself0
Wow! I wouldn't think too many girls would be offended by a height question. It's not like he asked your weight or bra size.0
If I asked, I'd be hoping she was tiny, but it's not a dealbreaker.0
No more rude than asking a dudes. From what I hear it's mostly just scandanavian men that have a height requirement. Most guys ask about a girls weight which is better since at least that can be altered.0
What Girls Said 9
160 cm is 5'3. And it shouldn't have to be rude. But I suggest to not get too personal with them when you haven't talked for a while. Overall if they say how they don't want to disclose certain information, respect that and don't be pushy. As long as your not, they won't get offended. And if they do, then perhaps you need to leave them alone and find somebody else who is not going to freak out with every question you ask them, unless it was very inappropriate. Also, if they have a requirement physically, leave such people alone. Too shallow.0
I think you're overreacting. Asking how tall someone is is definitely not like asking how much someone makes.0
... the hell? No asking for your height is not rude unlike asking for his income.. thats rude lol Its just a simple question, how tall are you? I don't see how thats even remotely rude. I would just say o I'm 5"4... like he's not asking for your size of your tits or ass. lol0
well if he doesn't ask and you meet up he'll find out your height anyway so it's not something worth feeling like you have to hide0
Nope. It would be inappropriate if he asked your cup size and to see pics.
But not height.0
It's not rude at all lol0
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