I know a lot of people are going to say "you haven't met the right person yet", but dating in general shouldn't be THAT hard.
At this point im not really worried about it ending in us becoming a couple, i would just like to experience how it feels to date somone for a longer period of time.
Guys seem to get tired of me/uninterested very quickly and it messsing with my self esteem. If im lucky i'll get a third date, things dont go any futher. Guys will be super interested in the beginning, the firts date normally goes great and they message me after and want to meet again. I'll talk to guys on dating apps, and they are really interested at first then they lose interest.. it happens a lot. 90%of the time thing dont progress because the guy loses interest, but it happens that i lose interest too and thats the reason it ends
i honestly belive i dont do anything "weird", i dont share very personal things, i joke around, i pay attention to the guy, i dont wear anything weird. And guys really like me after the/during the first date.
I just dont get it :( I dont expect them to fall in love with me or anything, but why won't any guy long term date me?
Most Helpful Guy
If you're not able to notice anything you might be doing wrong, then don't bother worrying about it. You shouldn't let it affect your self esteem, your self esteem should come from within. It shouldn't come from the actions of other people, you have no control over that. Ultimately you'll just have to accept that it will come down to being with the right guy because unless there's something specifically off putting that you're doing, you're unable to change.0
Most Helpful Girl
It could be that the guys you date aren't looking for long term commitment and only looking for sex. They prob lose interest when they see you aren't willing to jump in bed w/them. Usually when I go on a 1st date, I describe what I am looking for and if they aren't looking for the same, I don't bother going on date w/then again. I don't expect them to be my boyfriend right away, but that's what I want to work up to.0