How come some people try again after being rejected? Why don't they just go find someone else?
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Participation trophies. People these days are taught that you don't have to be or do anything special or extraordinary to excel or gain anything in life. Conversely, we also teach children that they can do absolutely nothing or skate by to achieve the same result as those who do try hard. Therefore children try less because they've either seen no returns on their investment or have gained more return than they've invested. In the dating world, this female rejection turns into negative reinforcement for that behavior.2